Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Another year's advice

You don't know what you can do until you try.  Don't be afraid to fail.  Life doesn't lay itself out as a path in front of you.
The problems of failure are hard, but there are problems with success too
People will tolerate how unpleasant you are if your work is good and you deliver it on time. They'll forgive the lateness of the work if it's good, and if they like you. And you don't have to be as good as the others if you're on time and it's always a pleasure to hear from you.
Showing up on time is a gesture of respect to the person you are meeting with

You are responsible for your own education
Too many people don't take this responsibility and stay ignorant
You can choose to be one of these people, or you can choose to fill the one life that you get

Don't waste time being shy, or worse, pretending to be shy
It's not so much if people are good or bad as it is sane or not all there
Some people will like you and some won't.  Some bosses will like the work you do and others won't.  Don't make yourself crazy trying to understand why
It's not that hard to commit an illegal act.  You'll get caught when you do it often enough to forget that it's illegal.
Some people are there own punishment in life.
Don't trust anyone who tells you that a certain time period is the best years of your life. It means they aren't doing it right.
Never stop fighting, but think about why you're fighting and if you're on the right side.
Always speak your mind, but don't be surprised if others don't listen.  You're saying it for you more than them.
Acknowledge your mistakes, but don't obsess over them.  Remember the lessons, but don't allow it to scar you.
Doing what you like is freedom.  Liking what you do is happiness.
'The world only cares about what it can get from you.   Other people do not care if you are a nice person.  That's why so many jerks succeed.
Success makes you lazy
Let go of your anger.  It feels good, but it's not worth it.  Do you want to be remembered as an angry person?
If you're jealous of one thing about a person, you have to be jealous about everything.  They may have gotten the one thing by sacrificing the rest of their life.
No one is keeping score on you but you
Walk away from a deal if you're not comfortable.